Has nothing changed
no matter how much work you've done?
10 questions that reveal the gap between the work you've been doing and the change your relationship actually needs.
You've done the sessions. You've cried the tears. Now let's do the actual work that changes what happens next time she looks at you — or when you look in the mirror.
Show me my patternsYou've done real work.
The pattern is still there.
- You've been in therapy, a men's circle, or somatic work — and the same patterns keep showing up anyway.
- Your relationship is on the edge and you know, if you're honest, that you're part of why.
- You're self-aware enough to see the problem but haven't found a way to actually change it.
- You're tired of feeling like you're doing everything right and getting nowhere.
Five minutes of honesty.
A clear picture of what's actually there.
10 honest questions
Questions that cut through the surface of what you think is happening and get to what's actually driving the pattern — in your own words, on paper.
A scoring framework
Shows you exactly where the gap is between the work you've been doing and the change your relationship actually needs.
A clear next step
Not a sales pitch. A real direction based on what your answers reveal — so when she asks "are you actually changing?" you have an honest answer, and a path.
Show me my patterns
Free. Takes five minutes. Answer honestly — that's the only rule.
I came to find Brad's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life. With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life on the other side of crisis.
I'll be the first to admit it — I've failed in past relationship. What I've learned, the hard way, is that awareness without accountability changes nothing.
This audit exists because I've watched too many good men do real work in the wrong direction. Five minutes of honesty here is worth more than months of sessions that leave the real patterns untouched.
— Brad Sukarukoff